Something brought you here.

Maybe you know exactly what it is. Maybe you just sense that the life you're living and the life you feel is possible don't quite line up — and that gap has been there long enough.

Either way, you're in the right place.

Working together is a bit like backpacking in the mountains. Sometimes it's exhilarating. Sometimes it opens you in ways you didn't expect and couldn't predict. Sometimes it's cold, wet and uncomfortable.

Whatever the experience, it's outside the normal comfort zone — and this is where the value lies. It shows you that you are stronger than you knew. And it can open new doors inside that you didn't know were there.

It's not necessarily easy, but the effort is worth it. And you don't have to do it by yourself.

Most of us are already outside our comfort zone. We're just staying busy and preoccupied enough to pretend we aren't. But there are times when the discomfort of where we are pushes us to look for something else.

Some of those times might look like this:

Anxiety — sometimes just a subtle tension, sometimes completely debilitating. Always there.
Grief that is fresh and painful like an open wound, or older grief that has settled into a deeper ache.
A deep feeling of loss, often without a name.
Anger that keeps arriving uninvited, possibly leaving harm or chaos in its wake.
Reactions that feel too big for what's happening — emotions, memories, or body sensations that seem to repeat, or come from somewhere older than now.
A relationship that once worked and now mostly hurts — like something got lost along the way, including maybe part of yourself.
Being a man when the old roles no longer fit and masculinity itself is contested territory.
A life that looks successful from the outside and feels strangely empty from the inside. Nothing is wrong, and something still is.
The quiet ache of knowing there is more life than you've been living, and not quite being able to ignore it anymore.

If any of these touches a thread in you, there's a door below worth opening.

Choose a door and begin your journey

I work online with clients across BC, across Canada, and internationally. For clients in BC, our work together is counselling. Outside BC, it’s coaching — a slightly different container but the same conversation.

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